What happens to a person who has always been covered and saved by women. Someone who is always protected, will always seek protection by women and will do so proudly.
When they are made aware of it, they lose their senses to realize that their protection might be threatened, as a result of which they hurt the same women they were so shelled by.
He was always protected by his mother, his sisters that he wanted the same from his partner, he forgot the part he had to play for her protection. In his pursuit of absolute protection from her; what he was so used to all his life, he lost control over himself and was pushed to punish her for having some expectations from him, expecting to be protected by him.
They will always run away from their responsibilities and will always deny and escape their duties. They are so used to the woman cocooning that they can't see themselves doing it for anyone or having it the other way round.
Kelly Clarkson has very rightly said in one of her songs, "You got your mother and your brother, every other, under cover, telling you what to say". These people always need these women telling them what to say, what to do all the time. They are so dependent on them that they expect the same from every woman who enters their lives.
It is very hard for them to give back what they have been receiving all their life. And once again woman is the one carrying the weight of the relationship, being the mother, being the sister, being the partner
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